How A Muslim Matchmaking Service Can Benefit The Women

By Kenneth Patterson


Anyone who has investigated any of the thousands of dating sites online knows just how sketchy they really are. Not only are most of the female profiles completely fake, but a vast multitude of the men who operate active profiles are either married or in what their woman thinks is a committed relationship. So, it stands to reason that some might wonder if there is any real benefit for Islamic women venturing into a Muslim matchmaking service.

Islamic law teaches that marriage is required for civilization to be strong and prosperous. With such a strong push toward marriage, young people on these sites are usually not looking for casual encounters. When one opens such a profile, unlike mainstream sites, they are expected to be very serious about seeking a mate.

Most of the world views Islam with some distrust, and for this reason it is very difficult for those living in Western nations to meet others of their faith. Traditionally, families have taken an active role in attempting to match their children with potential mates. This can be both embarrassing and stressful for everyone involved.

Because of the seriousness of marriage in their culture, a new online oasis has been created. This allows young people to make connections outside family, with people their parents are likely to approve of. Not only that, but it has created a world where women are able to have greater power over who they might want to spend time, and possibly the rest of their lives with.

Families who carry strong traditional values are still skeptical about this method of meeting. However, with many successful relationships having led to good marriages, the Western Islamic people are slowly opening up to the idea. Unfortunately, those living in traditionally Islamic countries often cannot even access these sites yet.

With online video chatting programs, now often a part of these sites as well, it is possible to at least get a good look at the person. In casual conversation, viewing one another as if from across the room, two people can take some time getting to know each other. This can help to ensure greater safety before meeting a person for the first time, but it is not a guarantee.

For many young people in the West, it is just about the only way they can meet people likely to please their families. The same can be said of Jewish families, and there are also Jewish as well as Christian services available. These are usually a better plan than simply searching traditional sites to find individuals of their faith, since so many of the people on mainstream sites are not who they claim to be.

These websites are extremely helpful to the young women of this faith, for it grants them the ability to make real choices about what sort of man they spend their time, and ultimately their life with. Traditionally, the women of Islam are expected to follow whatever path their family sets for them, sometimes without even the freedom to say no to suitor. However, with modern tools, even a traditional girl can meet familial expectations while still seeking that man who will make her most happy.




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